Before Luann de Lesseps and Tom D'Agostino got together, The Real Housewives of New York City ex had quite the romantic history with Luann's fellow Big Apple pals, Sonja Morgan and Ramona Singer. But now that Luann and Tom are set to divorce, don't expect him to rekindle any former RHONY relationships.
His onetime lover Sonja recently told PEOPLE that her friendship with Tom is all over now that he's split from her bestie. “That’s done,” she said. “Absolutely. Because for me, friends, girlfriends come first. I would never go out with a girlfriend’s ex-husband or ex-boyfriend. That’s just a rule for me. I wouldn’t do it.”
Sonja went on to explain that her relationship with Tom had always been different from how Luann knew him. “Tom and I were good friends for a much longer time than Luann knew him, obviously,” she shared. “And even though Dorinda [Medley] said she knew him for 10 years, she didn’t know him like I knew Tom. We’re good buddies. He was my drinking buddy. I really knew him to be the bachelor he is.”
That being said, Sonja shared that she "wasn't surprised" that Luann and Tom ultimately decided to divorce. She also said that she hasn't been in touch with Tom since the couple called it quits. “No, no, I’m not there for Tom,” she said. “I’m there for Luann.”
Sonja immediately showed her support for Luann when the news of her divorce broke last week. "I told Luann I'm there for her whether this worked out or not and here I am. Men come and go, and at the end the day, we have our girlfriends, don't we?" the RHONY mom said in a statement to E! News. "I wanted it to work out, but I want her to know I'm here for her."
We'll hear more from Sonja, Luann, and the rest of the RHONY gang when Part 1 of this season's reunion kicks off Wednesday at 9/8c. Check out a sneak peek, below.